SELF-CONFIDENCE: Shielding IT from Negativity

Self-confidence is a vital part of achieving our dreams and living a fulfilling life. Unfortunately, negative people can often hinder our progress. 

That’s why it’s essential to guard your self-confidence from their influence and maintain a firm belief in yourself. That is why I want to talk about how to shield yourself from negativity so you can start achieving your greatness.

Understanding the Impact of Negative People

Negative individuals come in two forms: conscious haters and unconscious haters. Both types can undermine your self-confidence, but they do it in different ways.

Conscious Haters

These are people who are aware of their negativity, often family members or friends who may seem envious of your dreams. They might make comments that try to belittle your achievements or discourage you from pursuing your dreams.

For instance, I once met a woman who, upon hearing my dream of becoming a motivational speaker, claimed she was a better speaker than I was. She said, “Gene, that’s always been my dream. We both know I’m a better speaker than you, so you should bring me to your events and let me speak before you, and then you can take it from there.” Her intention was obvious: to undermine my confidence with her negativity. I didn’t fall for it; instead, I removed that individual from my life.

It’s crucial to recognize when someone is trying to bring you down and to distance yourself from such negativity. Remember, their jealousy often stems from their own insecurities.

Unconscious Haters

These individuals may not even realize they are projecting negativity onto you. They might express skepticism about your goals or dismiss your dreams as unrealistic. I encountered someone at a speech club who told me that pursuing speaking engagements was like trying to make it to the NBA — almost impossible. This person was unknowingly projecting his limitations onto me, which can be damaging if we allow it to seep into our minds.

The Importance of Shielding Your Confidence

Just like the sternum protects the heart, we must create a shield around our self-confidence. Without this protection, we risk allowing negative comments and limiting beliefs to penetrate our thoughts and feelings. Here are some strategies to help you shield your self-confidence:

1. Recognize Negative Influences

Awareness is the first step in shielding yourself. Identify the people in your life who drain your energy or undermine your confidence. Limit your exposure to them.

2. Speak Up for Yourself

Don’t be afraid to voice your dreams and ambitions. When you articulate your goals, you reinforce your commitment to them while simultaneously creating a barrier against negativity.

3. Focus on Your Abilities

Trust in your knowledge, skills and potential. Remind yourself regularly of your strengths and past successes. This practice will strengthen your self-belief and help you resist negative projections from others.

4. Surround Yourself with Positivity

Seek supportive individuals who uplift you and encourage your growth. Positive influences can provide the encouragement you need to pursue your dreams.

5. Reflect on Your Goals

Visualize your goals and the steps needed to achieve them. This reflection will keep you grounded and focused on what truly matters.

Conclusion

Remember, you are worthy of success and happiness. By shielding your self-confidence from negativity, you empower yourself to pursue your dreams without fear or doubt. Stay strong, believe in yourself, and don’t let anyone dim your light because You Are WORTHY TO BE GREAT!